Then, the man said, “Now, Doctor, look at the difference. You come home tired, Sir, and I know that. You may even have a headache from the work you do. Thinking, writing, reading, giving these kind of talks that you’ve given now. That tires out a person too. But Sir, it’s one thing to come home, even tired, and find the kids all bathed, dressed up, clean, well fed, not hungry. Yet, it's another thing to come home and find your kids dirty, hungry, crying, and making noise. And people have to get up at four in the morning the next day to start all over again -- hurting, sad, hopeless. If people hit their kids and even ‘go beyond bounds’, as you say, it’s not because people don’t love their kids. No, it’s because life is so hard they don’t have much choices.”