At this juncture, I would emphasise to the Father, who appears to be labouring under the impression that this order of maintenance will only enrich the Mother at his expense, that these sums are meant to ensure that his children have clothes on their back, books to read, an education to attend, and nourishing food to fuel their physical growth. I also note that the Father spoke at length of his desire to see his children excel and to do well in the world. If that is to come to pass, the Father must work hard to do his part so that his children can focus on their studies, without having to worry about finances. The Father will, accordingly, have to budget his finances more stringently, and strive harder at work to maintain or improve his income – but these are all challenges which, I am confident, the Father will find the strength within to overcome.